Female Sexual psychology : Introduction
Human sexuality, especially female sexuality, is a profound and multi-layered aspect of psychology that has been explored and debated for centuries. However, societal norms and cultural perceptions have often cast shadows over a genuine understanding of female sexual psychology, leading to both fascination and misunderstanding. The complexities surrounding female desires, fantasies, and emotional connections in the context of sexuality can be influenced by a myriad of factors, from upbringing and social expectations to deeply ingrained psychological needs and past experiences.
In this exploration, we will delve into the nuanced, often misunderstood, layers of female sexual psychology—an area often shaped by subconscious drives, psychological conditioning, and individual differences. Far from perpetuating stereotypes, this journey seeks to provide a clearer, research-based understanding of what influences women’s desires and psychological responses, aiming to foster healthier, more open dialogues about female sexuality in relationships and personal development.
Sexual and non sexual self
Women tend to have a s3xual self and a nons3xual self. The sexual self is usually buried deep in their unconscious. When a man can bring a woman’s s3xual self out, he gets to see the true wild side of women, and he enjoys women much more.
Authority over a woman
Whether a woman is choosing to turn on by a man or if a man is seducing her, her s3xual self must slowly be drawn out, and her nonsexual self, or conditioning, must be attended to. The guy has to provide RAW strength or He has to provide some kind of “authority.”
The main job of men
The man’s job is to lead her wherever she wants to go sexually. He has to be attentive to her to see the intense places that women want to go s3xually. The biggest thing that turns a woman on is her partner’s genuine burning desire for her.
Self confidence
Guys tend to lack self-confidence or don’t want to be seen as intimidating or dominant. And women don’t want to be seen as too forward or “sl*tty,” because of the fear of rejection. There tends to be very little initiation, especially on the women’s end.
Accomplishment and approach
The secret of how she accomplishes movement towards her s3xuality is by taking small steps. Small risks are much easier to take, hence incremental steps, it can be an outfit, a comment, a touch, etc. One by one and slowly.
The leader
We could summarize the male role as to lead women. Society teaches men contradictory ideas about what women want from men. Basically, on one side is a nice guy, and on the other side is a s3xy guy, And we all know whom she’ll choose. As the males are the ones with testosterone women expect men to take the lead.
The small moves
The s3xy guy knows how to seduce her: • He does this in small moves • He continually increases touching • He demonstrates strength and authority • He backs off when she resists • He returns to approval very quickly • He encourages her “s3xy girl” script/role
Summary
- Female sexual psychology is complex and influenced by social and personal factors. Its different from male sexuality.
- Women possess both sexual and non-sexual selves, often deeply embedded in their psyche.
- A man can help reveal a woman’s sexual side by showing strength and authority.
- The main role of men is to lead and respond to a woman’s sexual desires with genuine interest.
- Confidence is essential, as both men and women may fear being too forward.
- Women may take small, incremental steps to explore their sexuality.Men are often expected to lead, balancing strength with sensitivity.
- Effective seduction involves small, gradual moves, backing off when needed, and encouraging her to embrace her sexual self.
